Whether it is his devotion to a career, or how he volunteers his time after hours, when a man has purpose and dedication, it is unbelievably attractive.
It’s not that we don’t want to be self-reliant because most woman value independence, it’s just that when a man can fix things it is incredibly sexy, and not to mention, economical. [Read: 20 things you need to have to be a real man]
A man that takes responsibility and cares for his family – whether it be elderly parents, a sibling, or a misguided relative – it shows maturity and love, and both of those are definitely attractive.
Maybe it’s because they can fix, create, and provide great pleasure.
Goals in life are crucial if a person wants to amount to something, and make a difference. There is nothing sexier than a man that knows what he wants, and pursues it with a fiery passion.
A man that has class – not “swag” – is completely gorgeous. Open doors, wear pants at the waist, and tell a woman how lovely she looks.
Women don’t really want the strong, silent type; it’s too damn difficult. What women find attractive is a man that can tell us exactly what he needs and wants, and how he is feeling.
A woman finds it very pleasing when a man cares about her needs in bed. A real man doesn’t just pump, shoot and roll over, but instead works on making a woman very satisfied before calling it a night.
Knowing how to address a senior, behave properly around a mother, and eat without resembling a troll is always appealing for a woman.
Confidence is so hot, but a man with a Kanye-sized ego is not. A man that knows he is good at something, but doesn’t always feel the need to preach is what a woman really wants.
Laughing has been proven to make people live longer, happier lives. If a man can make a woman laugh and laugh along with her, that is a double win.
I’m talking about small mistakes like getting us lost, and big mistakes like forgetting birthdays. If a man can admit to his wrongdoing and acknowledge that he is in fact, only human, that is very appealing.
A PhD isn’t necessary, but a man that can hold his own in whatever topic he is passionate about, is so attractive. Also, books are always sexy.
Women are tired of hearing that the reason we can’t find an amazing relationship is because men are afraid of commitment. That’s bull. A man that isn’t afraid of saying “yes, I will be yours, and I promise to stay yours until we agreed otherwise” is the most attractive.
This isn’t just pulling surprise birthday parties or coming home with flowers. This is being able to pull out amazing maneuvers that leave us feeling like you are capable of anything and everything.
Feeding a woman can be the gateway to her heart. If you can provide a woman with a delicious meal, she will undoubtedly find you irresistible.
Being a parent takes an absurd amount of time and energy, and if a man is willing to change disgusting diapers, endure sleepless nights and play dress up, that is totally alluring to a woman *who wants kids*.
Maintaining inspiration is often tough at times when life has got you feeling down and out. When a man can motivate you to continue to pursue your dreams, it is definitely an obvious plus.
A person shouldn’t stop trying to improve themselves and the world they live in. Life is a continual learning process and a man that can celebrate that is more appealing than one that is set in his age-old ways.
Memorizing an entire series like Star Wars, or being obsessed with video games is completely fine, as long as a man can own it. And of course, as long as it doesn’t consume too much of his time and energy to an unhealthy point.
Being embraced by a protective, loving, real-life teddy bear is one of the most comforting things in the world. If a man can provide that, he is instantly attractive to a woman keep in mind time and place, of course.
The little stuff seems small but truly counts. If a man can help out with minute tasks such as dishes and share life’s load of responsibilities, they are more attractive than any super model.
Life should be lived to the fullest, and that means having as much fun as possible. We are here for a good time, so if a man can have fun with us, we find them completely charming.
We are part of our environment, and a man that acknowledges this and cares for the world around him is almost too sexy to handle.
Women have to deal with enough self-doubt from the world around them, and the last thing they need is a man telling them they should change X,Y or Z. A man that loves a woman for who she is, and not what she looks like, or what job she holds is a beautiful thing.
Adapted from Lovepanky